LEARNING TO ACCEPT…
Admitting there is a problem is half the cure. Isn’t that what they tell us?
I can finally admit that my exhusband abandoned our children. Our precious 5yr old said he misses “Daddy” and asked why he left us. I didn’t have an answer for him. The next step is being able to accept that he abandoned everyone. It’s been a very emotional week for us. The children especially are beginning to show their pain and anger in different ways . Suicide, rage, screaming, depression, … Just a few.
It been almost 10 weeks since he left. 10 weeks since he spoke to any of the children. 10 weeks. I haven’t accepted it completely yet, but I’m working on it, and as the weeks pass by it gets easier because it is more obvious day by day.

Today is August 17, 2015… We’ve come to accept that their “Dad” is non-existent. We are still having to deal with the depression, anger, and aggressions…. Especially among my teenagers. We’ve come a long way but are not where we want to be yet.